In memoriam, Kashmir, 1998-2009

You brought joy to those you touched. You had an irresistible charm borne of innocent mischief. You saw yourself as more human than cat, and made your presence felt despite not speaking much. You participated in everything and your curiosity knew no bounds. You were a peacemaker and a soother. You ruled the house and you welcomed all into your sphere. You feared naught. You lived to eat and you ate everything — we understood this as a show of affection, of belonging, of participating in the daily family rituals. You lived a full life, and you gave more than you took.

So long, my steadfast companion. Thank you for the memories; you graced our lives. You are my friend and I miss you much. May you rest in peace.

The Best Thing in the World

What’s the best thing in the world?
June-rose, by May-dew impearled;
Sweet south-wind, that means no rain;
Truth, not cruel to a friend;
Pleasure, not in haste to end;
Beauty, not self-decked and curled
Till its pride is over-plain;
Love, when, so, you’re loved again.
What’s the best thing in the world?
–Something out of it, I think.

Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Do not go gentle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Dylan Thomas

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Tagged: cat, Dying of the Light, Dylan Thomas, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, kashmir, love, Personal

mkhall

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how difficult the loss of a loved one is. My thoughts are with you.

Steve Roitstein

A beautiful tribute to a dear friend. I share in your loss.

Jeff Sass

Alex, so sorry. I have lost more beloved pets than I care to remember and it is always bittersweet... sadness for the loss, and joy for the memories of such pure, unimpaired devotion that it seems only a pet can bring. Cats are mystical, magical creatures, and I hope another enters your life soon.

Melissa Maples

I'm really sorry to hear about this. It's incredibly difficult to let a family member go, even if it was Kashmir's time. That's a very sweet photo, as well - what a fantastic companion.

Ico

Tapioli,

Sei bem o que significa perder um bichinho tao querido, infelizmente eles vem e vao tao cedo de nossas vidas. Tenho certeza que voce tera sempre boas recordacoes dele. Grande abraco e Deus o tenha.
Beijos do primo.

Alex de Carvalho

Thank you so much for your comforting thoughts. I am blessed to have shared Kashmir's time and his memory lives forever now.

Cintia (amiga da sua mae)

Sinto muito da sua saudade e tristeza que acompanha a perda de um grande companheiro.
I know well the emptiness that our little fur friends leave us. May you find comfort in knowing Kashmir loved you and your family more than anything. Hugs, Cintia.

Mollie Page

Alex -

So sorry to hear about your loss. I could see the deep devotion and love you had for Kashmir when we spoke on Monday. I buried my red cat Thomas under a bird bath and bird feeder 11 yrs ago in my back yard - and it brings solace to know his spirit still lives in my heart every time I watch the birds visit his grave.

Mollie

Cyndee Woolley

Alex,

I'm sorry to hear that Kashmir didn't make it. He was obviously a cherished part of your family and the loss is great.

My thoughts are with you.

~ Cyndee

Francesco

Sinto muito, cara. Voce escreveu palavras muito bonitas. Um grande abraco.

Suzanne Dameron

Alex - It's always a big hole losing a pet. What a nice tribute. Suzanne
Looking forward to your talk Thursday in Sarasota.

Cesar

Met Kashmir in Paris, actually this picture was taken there. I know how much she ment for Alex. Sorry to hear about your loss dude. Take care.

Andre Ribeirinho

Sorry about your loss Alex. I know what my 3 cats mean to me and I can imagine the kind of pain you're going through. He's probably in a better place now and only that can give us comfort. Be well my friend.

Alex de Carvalho

Thank you so much for your comments, it's heartwarming to receive your goodwill and it helps me a lot. Kashmir will now live on in my memory, as will the many lessons he taught me.

Lari

Sei como dói perder um bichinho que nos acompanhou por anos sem pedir nunca nada em troca e que entrega sem reclamar a sua vida a nós.
Não há nada a fazer a não ser agradecer por toda companhia que ele te fez por anos. Você tem sorte por isso. Força!

Opal

*hugs*

David M Childress

Heck, I am following you just for the beautiful eulogy. Some people think that men have no heart for cats, Ha! We lost our Champ after a great 17 years and it was very difficult. I went to the vet to put him down after too much suffering and I cried. I told the nurse I was sorry and that it must seem strange to see a man cry over a cat. No, she said, it happens all the time. His ashes are on our mantle dedicated to all the love he gave us.

alex de carvalho

In memoriam, Kashmir, 1998-2009