In memoriam, Kashmir, 1998–2009

What's going on?

You brought joy to those you touched. You had an irre­sistible charm borne of inno­cent mis­chief. You saw your­self as more human than cat, and made your pres­ence felt despite not speak­ing much. You par­tic­i­pated in every­thing and your curios­ity knew no bounds. You were a peace­maker and a soother. You ruled the house and you wel­comed all into your sphere. You feared naught. You lived to eat and you ate every­thing — we under­stood this as a show of affec­tion, of belong­ing, of par­tic­i­pat­ing in the daily fam­ily rit­u­als. You lived a full life, and you gave more than you took.

So long, my stead­fast com­pan­ion. Thank you for the mem­o­ries; you graced our lives. You are my friend and I miss you much. May you rest in peace.

The Best Thing in the World

What’s the best thing in the world?
June-rose, by May-dew impearled;
Sweet south-wind, that means no rain;
Truth, not cruel to a friend;
Plea­sure, not in haste to end;
Beauty, not self-decked and curled
Till its pride is over-plain;
Love, when, so, you’re loved again.
What’s the best thing in the world?
–Some­thing out of it, I think.

Eliz­a­beth Bar­rett Browning

Do not go gen­tle into that good night.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Dylan Thomas

Reblog this post [with Zemanta]
 

  • Heck, I am following you just for the beautiful eulogy. Some people think that men have no heart for cats, Ha! We lost our Champ after a great 17 years and it was very difficult. I went to the vet to put him down after too much suffering and I cried. I told the nurse I was sorry and that it must seem strange to see a man cry over a cat. No, she said, it happens all the time. His ashes are on our mantle dedicated to all the love he gave us.
  • Opal
    *hugs*
  • Lari
    Sei como dói perder um bichinho que nos acompanhou por anos sem pedir nunca nada em troca e que entrega sem reclamar a sua vida a nós.
    Não há nada a fazer a não ser agradecer por toda companhia que ele te fez por anos. Você tem sorte por isso. Força!
  • Thank you so much for your comments, it's heartwarming to receive your goodwill and it helps me a lot. Kashmir will now live on in my memory, as will the many lessons he taught me.
  • Sorry about your loss Alex. I know what my 3 cats mean to me and I can imagine the kind of pain you're going through. He's probably in a better place now and only that can give us comfort. Be well my friend.
  • Cesar
    Met Kashmir in Paris, actually this picture was taken there. I know how much she ment for Alex. Sorry to hear about your loss dude. Take care.
  • Alex - It's always a big hole losing a pet. What a nice tribute. Suzanne
    Looking forward to your talk Thursday in Sarasota.
  • Sinto muito, cara. Voce escreveu palavras muito bonitas. Um grande abraco.
  • Alex,

    I'm sorry to hear that Kashmir didn't make it. He was obviously a cherished part of your family and the loss is great.

    My thoughts are with you.

    ~ Cyndee
  • Mollie Page
    Alex -

    So sorry to hear about your loss. I could see the deep devotion and love you had for Kashmir when we spoke on Monday. I buried my red cat Thomas under a bird bath and bird feeder 11 yrs ago in my back yard - and it brings solace to know his spirit still lives in my heart every time I watch the birds visit his grave.

    Mollie
  • Cintia (amiga da sua mae)
    Sinto muito da sua saudade e tristeza que acompanha a perda de um grande companheiro.
    I know well the emptiness that our little fur friends leave us. May you find comfort in knowing Kashmir loved you and your family more than anything. Hugs, Cintia.
  • Thank you so much for your comforting thoughts. I am blessed to have shared Kashmir's time and his memory lives forever now.
  • Ico
    Tapioli,

    Sei bem o que significa perder um bichinho tao querido, infelizmente eles vem e vao tao cedo de nossas vidas. Tenho certeza que voce tera sempre boas recordacoes dele. Grande abraco e Deus o tenha.
    Beijos do primo.
  • I'm really sorry to hear about this. It's incredibly difficult to let a family member go, even if it was Kashmir's time. That's a very sweet photo, as well - what a fantastic companion.
  • Alex, so sorry. I have lost more beloved pets than I care to remember and it is always bittersweet... sadness for the loss, and joy for the memories of such pure, unimpaired devotion that it seems only a pet can bring. Cats are mystical, magical creatures, and I hope another enters your life soon.
  • A beautiful tribute to a dear friend. I share in your loss.
  • I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how difficult the loss of a loved one is. My thoughts are with you.
blog comments powered by Disqus