Moments give reason to the season
by Alex. Average Reading Time: about 6 minutes.
Crisis Camp Haiti in Miami, originally uploaded by alexdecarvalho.
Whenever I take a step back to reflect on the past two years, I realize with a great sense of accomplishment how far I’ve come, and with a great sense of humility how little any of it had to do with me. These 24 months have been transformational, after a many-years-long period I will forever metaphorically remember as a “crossing of the desert.” I knew the hardship would end one day, culminating in an abundance of rich experiences and opportunity, but I never thought I would count so many blessings.
Indeed, I have been blessed by the help of a great number of people, many of whom are listed below. The peril of this exercise is, of course, that I will inadvertently omit dear friends, for which I apologize in advance. Clearly more people deserve mention, and it is my own failing for not including everyone.
My personal interest in this post is in looking back years from now to remember the moments and people that made it all possible, that kept me motivated, and that made the journey worthwhile. There were some low points, for sure, which I choose not to dwell on so as not to cast a shadow on the brilliance of those who made it so great.
Can a few short words or a sentence fully express how you’ve impacted me? Of course not. But you have made it better in many ways unmentioned.
In alphabetical order but in no small measure, thank you:
- Adriana Queiroz – for listening and for holding my hand
- Alejandro Corpeño, Roberto Brevé – for an excellent WebConf last year and a sublime visit to a special country, Honduras
- Angelique Swann – you are an inspiration, for your ideas, your energy, and your smile
- Bill Roy, Susan Kelley – for you have held me up when I have most needed it, on many occasions
- Bruce Turkel – for sage, sage advice, for inspiration, and for the positive push now and then
- Carlos Miller — for speaking truth to power, respect
- Chris Fullman, Peter Imbres – speaking at SXSW was a big, unexpected highlight
- Chris Heuer, Kristie Wells – for the friendship and for the invaluable relationships brought by Social Media Club, AdHocnium, and SMCEDU, and for your never ending ideas
- Christian Altaba, Henry Gazay, Liz Gazay – for you have opened new doors and set me to sail on an exciting new path
- Cyndee Woolley, Mollie Page Griffiths, Amanda Marie Eyer – for believing in me early on, when I was still finding my footing
- David Meerman Scott – for being a like-minded internationalist who generously gave to our local community
- David Speroni – for being the true friend you are
- Eric Oetjen – for thinking way outside the box, brother
- Florian Seroussi – for our occasional behind the scenes commentary and for stepping up at Mobile Monday when we most needed you
- Frederico Kler – my cousin, you are an inspiration to me
- Gary Bahadur, Padmini Pandya – a nice friendship evolving to a business relationship through a challenging book, thank you for inviting me on this journey
- Grandmother – you raised me through my adolescence and teens, and I will miss you. It’s still too early to fully appreciate your loss, but I moved back from Europe a few years ago in part to reconnect with you and make peace. Thank you for the heartfelt conversations.
- Hugh MacLeod – for sharing uncannily wise advice and for your continued friendship. Rock on.
- Irina Patterson – for being all heart
- Jason Inasi – hello, my co-author, it’s truly a pleasure to learn more about you
- Jean-Michel Caffin – congratulations for an exceptional CCEF conference this year, and thank you for including me in the program
- Jeff Sass – for the laughs and for the friendship, it’s a pleasure to see you every time
- Jens Horneman, Alejandra Betancourt – you both rock and I am overjoyed by your smiles. I miss Milou, though.
- Jessica Kizorek and Erin – I’ve watched you change and grow and it’s wonderful to see. The future is yours to grab.
- Julia Wakefield – for being awesome
- Kim Grinfeder, Rich Beckman, Sam Terilli, Yves Colon – it’s an honor and a privilege to teach at the University of Miami, and I have you to thank. I know you’ve gone out on the line — it’s not lost on me and I appreciate it.
- Loic Le Meur – thank you for agreeing to speak at Social Media Club and for an outstanding LeWeb, which blew my mind with its multiple TED-like moments.
- Marc Michel, Silja Chouquet – that workshop was fun, thank you so much. There’s lots to do …
- Maria de Los Angeles – for the conversations and for the friendships. You know.
- Michael Tangeman – the true force behind Mobile Monday Miami, we miss you sorely. Thank you for your integrity and professionalism, it has been a pleasure working with you.
- Nick Dominguez – for outstanding design and for stepping up on short deadlines.
- Parents – the main reason I moved back, to spend more time with you, for better or worse – I try my best. Thank you for all you do.
- Paul Kruger — for being a steadfast friend through thick and thin.
- Patrick Barbanes, Stephen Malagodi – the picture above says it all, doesn’t it? What an outstanding Crisis Camp Haiti. We could have done more. Mea Culpa, perhaps.
- Richard Menneveux – the French Web lives on, and how. Thank you for some great conversations.
- Roy Lindemann, Andrew Storer – no more raclettes, for sure. Just fondue.
- Robert Murray – remember that night outside Tobacco Road? Thank you.
- Saulo Passos – you killed it with NokiaTalks, thank you for including me. It was amazing meeting up with 100 South American bloggers.
- Seth Elliott – good conversations and a budding partnerships in many areas. Looking forward to next year.
- Social Media Club: Yvette Ferry, Christine Adolf, Agustina Prigoshin, Ulises Orozco, Denise Jacobs, Jay Berkowitz, Murray Izzenwasser, Toby Srebnik, Angie Moncada, Neil Bardach, Matt Chamberlain, David Suarez, Jessica Jurick, Michelle Catin, John Prieur – it has been a pleasure and an honor to work with each and all of you. You have surprised me, you have made it awesome, and you have made it fun. Thank you for your patience, too.
- Social network friends – really? Really. Every single day I look at what you’re up to, on Twitter, on Facebook, on Reader, on Flickr. You show me new things. You blow my mind. You inspire me. You make me tear up. You send me a word of encouragement. You chastise me. Build me up or tear me down, you are always there. And I am never alone. It’s selfish, perhaps, but you make me better.
- Steve Roitstein – latin music with a kick. And kick-ass food. And a big heart. Thank you, mi vecino.
- Tonya Scholz – you’re a true badass. And you’re lovely. Thanks for looking out for me.
- William Plasencia, Jami Reyes – you are so thoughtful, you fill me with peace.
When I look back at this list, I am especially humbled by how much each of you helped me along the way, as well as by the number of you who helped. If in two years, so many of you graced my life, I can only wonder what of the 40 previous years?
It’s no small epiphany to say I’ve found new meaning in John Donne’s quote:
No man is an Island, entire of itself
every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or of thine own were
any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankind
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls
It tolls for thee.John Donne, Meditation XVII

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